So I've noticed something about manifesting "coaches" and reality shifting guides:
They all center around trying to force a specific outcome, or force a shift to a desired timeline.
That very stance is rooted in lack, and it's unrealistic.
Plus, it's too much work.
Sorry to say.
If you want results, you're not gonna get them through force.
The universe knows what you want, because through the process of living, you naturally develop preferences.
Your main work is not to force a shift, or a manifestation, or even to grind in 3D reality.
You main (and hardest) work is to let go, and sink into your present reality, focusing on and savoring what is already here to appreciate. In the act of letting go, you have freed yourself from the resistance that kept you in lack, and now your desires will flow effortlessly toward you.
This is hard, because the ego stops you. But you can win; you're the boss.
You know that feeling, right? You look at your life and know there's something more out there for you. More joy, more magic, more of what makes life truly special.
But then the doubts creep in. Is it really possible? I mean, I'm not special. I look around and I see others living similar lives. Am I just chasing a pipe dream?
Here's the truth: You aren't special. lol. But that life you're envisioning? It's already happening. There's a version of you out there who's already living it. Shifting timelines isn't about winning some cosmic lottery. It's about vibrating as close as possible to having it already, not getting it or striving for it, and that's what will happen.
Your current life is not set in stone. We shift constantly, unbeknownst to us. You don't have to control it, you only need to control your awareness. The path you are on right now is just one possible path, and you have the power to choose a different one.
But you can't do it by force.
So, how do you start?
Step One: Fall Deeply in Love with Yourself
Forget about trying to fix yourself. You shift timelines by loving yourself so radically that the best timelines and manifestations can't help but catch up. Look in the mirror and tell yourself, "I am enough just as I am." Because the truth is, you are. And that matches the vibration of your desired reality. Your ego is the only one requiring you to meet certain criteria before you will believe that you are "enough." Tell it to shut up and switch your focus from self-improving into self-appreciating. All-appreciating. Once you do, everything starts to shift.
Step Two: Let Go of the Need to Control
You can't force a timeline shift. The more you try to control everything, the more you'll resist what you're trying to create. So, set your intention, imagine the life you want, and then let go. You don't have to go back and constantly readjust the details of the life you want to live, that is an addiction. You have a long enough wish list to get the universe started in the right direction, trust me. Let it go, stop living in your head, and bring your awareness to present reality, as counterintuitive as that may seem.
Step Three: Live Your Future Life Now
Don't wait for everything to be perfect to allow yourself to feel the way you want to feel. Start feeling into the energy of the life you want to create, and let that guide your actions. Carry yourself in a way that makes you feel like the person you want to be. Don't wait. Take time each morning to connect with your best self. Let them guide your day. Choose to believe in your ability to align with them, even when things get tough.
If you have struggled to put these steps into practice in your life, I've got a free gift for you - my Manifestation Bootcamp. Inside, you'll find short, fun activities to begin to change your daily habits so you can start living the life you've always dreamed of. I really wanted a free resource to help people connect with their best selves. We all benefit from living in a world of people who are able to deeply love and care for themselves.
And here's the thing: Joy is your compass. The more you find joy in the present moment, the more you'll be aligned with the life you really want. So, don't settle for less. Don't give up on your dreams. You have the power to create the life you've always envisioned.
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